Prayers request to aid our Cousin
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Topic: Prayers request to aid our Cousin
Posted By: DMiller
Subject: Prayers request to aid our Cousin
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 6:12pm
She began her journey home over the last few weeks where returned cancer has taken away much of her capabilities now. She is on a morphine drip and has Hospice care workers attending her final days. Prayers Her painful last few days will be rewarded as she enters the here after being at peace. She just passed 73 years old.
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Posted By: Steve in NJ
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 6:26pm
So sad to hear Dave. My condolences. She isn't that old, but Cancer doesn't care how old ya are. Prayers from New Joisey. She'll be Cancer free soon and with the "Big Guy".... Steve@B&B
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Posted By: klinemar
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 6:50pm
I pray that God welcomes her with open arms and gives comfort to her family!
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Posted By: plummerscarin
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 6:55pm
Prayers from iowa. Tough days ahead I know.
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Posted By: DougG
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 7:07pm
Deepest sympathies to family and friends,, its tough seeing people go thru this , makes you wonder why it happens to good folks , life is the luck of the draw- live it while your here,,,
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Posted By: Thad in AR.
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 8:31pm
Prayers going up for her and all your family. Sorry to hear this.
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Posted By: Hubert (Ga)engine7
Date Posted: 04 Oct 2021 at 8:34pm
Prayers for comfort and peace for her family.
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Posted By: shameless dude
Date Posted: 05 Oct 2021 at 12:33am
Posted By: Bob D. (La)
Date Posted: 05 Oct 2021 at 6:49am
Sorry to hear this Dave. Condolences for the entire family. God has healed her for eternity and she now has a perfect, disease free body. God Bless.
------------- When you find yourself in a hole,PUT DOWN THE SHOVEL!!!
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Posted By: Ray54
Date Posted: 05 Oct 2021 at 1:12pm
Posted By: tadams(OH)
Date Posted: 05 Oct 2021 at 1:40pm
Posted By: DMiller
Date Posted: 06 Oct 2021 at 7:13pm
A necessary Update to all that gave comfort, Mary passed yesterday afternoon, had been in a drug induced sleep for nearly a day and just passed quietly, Thank you all.
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Posted By: plummerscarin
Date Posted: 06 Oct 2021 at 8:02pm
My condolences. Prayers out to your family
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Posted By: BPM75
Date Posted: 06 Oct 2021 at 8:07pm
Sorry for your loss. Prayers for the family
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Posted By: desertjoe
Date Posted: 07 Oct 2021 at 6:55am
SO very Sorry and Condolences for Mary and all your family, DMiller. Hospice Care here was what helped all of our family,, especially my wife. Those people were exceptional in their Love and desire to make her last days as comfortable as was possible and that is what my memories are. I struggled with trying to decide what was right for my wife and am now glad that her final days were pain free. May PEACE be with you and the family.
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Posted By: Brian Jasper co. Ia
Date Posted: 07 Oct 2021 at 5:13pm
Sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.
------------- "Any man who thinks he can be happy and prosperous by letting the government take care of him better take a closer look at the American Indian." Henry Ford
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Posted By: Tracy Martin TN
Date Posted: 07 Oct 2021 at 6:20pm
Prayers for all involved! God Bless!
------------- No greater gift than healthy grandkids!
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Posted By: Dick L
Date Posted: 07 Oct 2021 at 7:48pm
Posted By: Wayne180d
Date Posted: 08 Oct 2021 at 1:30am
Prayers from central Illinois
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Posted By: DMiller
Date Posted: 08 Oct 2021 at 4:07am
Now the real fun begins, best friend of hers had POA, not uncommon of single older adults without close family or children, HOWEVER, she is not a Blood relative with relatives(myself and my Brother) living close as well two half sibs in UT. The funerary people looked up SS records along with those of her Father(passed Dec 2020) they had access to records and found she had remaining blood family alive so will not release any documents to that friend without a signed release from a family member. Bills can be paid as she also has a signature card on file to write checks on her bank account but cannot close any billed accounts as electric or apartment nor transfer car title (TOD) without a death certificate. I called the funerary service, spoke to the gal handling this where she was quite welcoming as to my signing(1st cousins can) and she laid out what was needed to get the release started. Had the death date on her Father but could not locate records of the Mother, they had NOT handled the funeral of her Mother and could not locate information on her. After some digging found her maiden and second marriage name, found a record in Find a Grave as to headstone, same cemetery my cousin is to be interred in where they will have records to show deceased and extended family or where to acquire Death Cert. Will see what happens today.
Just another exercise in futility of the modern age. Information abounds just cannot get there from here, have to start somewhere else!!
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Posted By: DMiller
Date Posted: 09 Oct 2021 at 5:47pm
Form Signed Electronically, Cremation will occur in next week to two then her care givers will have her interred at Rosa Lawn next to her Mother. All good and should end soon.
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Posted By: Ted J
Date Posted: 12 Oct 2021 at 12:04am
Sorry to hear of this Dave. My prayers for comfort and peace for the entire family go out and to you as some cousins are like brothers and sister. Yes, too young but she is at peace now with the Lord.
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