Home care for our elders

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   One od sons friends was taking care of his dad who had dementia , he ended up getting a full time job taking care of him and paid for by insurance . When his father passed his mother also started havig problems and he became paid healthcare individual . Now he has his mother in law also staying there and is reimbursed for her care . 
  only thing he had to do was turn his lower level walkout into 2 appartments - their own living area as sort of rental units . 
 So between being a care giver he doesn't work but that is his full time job now . His wife is a school teacher so her family insurance covers him and their kids so his expenses there are covered by her . 
  Now when grand parents in WI were having problems - social services said they would help them through the winter by moving them into a facilities for a short time . both were in late 80's , the place had them both in same room so was more like their normal living conditions in being together . After winter they both stayed there until grandmother passed about 5 years later . As there were on welfare County attached the home they had in Ellsworth and rented it out to cover recovery for their care . 
 Granddad lived there until he passed at 96 . 
Talking to staff one day they said grand dat had one problem - rather than eat lunch there he would walk to town about 1/2 mile from place to have a brandy and cigar at local watering hole - do it about 3 or 4 times a week . 
  Redeeming factor was one of my cousins worked there as a LPN so spent some time seeing them both during the week - 

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	One od sons friends was taking care of his dad who had dementia , he ended up getting a full time job taking care of him and paid for by insurance . When his father passed his mother also started havig problems and he became paid healthcare individual . Now he has his mother in law also staying there and is reimbursed for her care . only thing he had to do was turn his lower level walkout into 2 appartments - their own living area as sort of rental units . So between being a care giver he doesn't work but that is his full time job now . His wife is a school teacher so her family insurance covers him and their kids so his expenses there are covered by her . Now when grand parents in WI were having problems - social services said they would help them through the winter by moving them into a facilities for a short time . both were in late 80's , the place had them both in same room so was more like their normal living conditions in being together . After winter they both stayed there until grandmother passed about 5 years later . As there were on welfare County attached the home they had in Ellsworth and rented it out to cover recovery for their care . Granddad lived there until he passed at 96 . Talking to staff one day they said grand dat had one problem - rather than eat lunch there he would walk to town about 1/2 mile from place to have a brandy and cigar at local watering hole - do it about 3 or 4 times a week . Redeeming factor was one of my cousins worked there as a LPN so spent some time seeing them both during the week -
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