Daughters boyfriend first meeting

desertjoe wrote:  Hey TBone,,,UMmmmm what,,,(If I may ask) is a D pic,,,?

Well Joe, what does a boy have, begins with the letter D(not scientifically but conversationally), and he’d like a girl to see it?

fixer1958 wrote: Have a daughter and 2 boy's. I didn't have to do much as far as intimidation. Just let the wife handle it. She had to go to anger management classes for attacking a boyfriend. A couple of one of the boy's girlfriends didn't fair so well either. Nothing physical happened but Wow. No one went to jail and none have done drugs and all are doing very well for themselves so I think we at least did OK in that respect. None of my girlfriends parents liked me much except my present in laws. I think it may be because I held a job and knew how to fish and drove a truck with no AC.

At 17 was in US of Army, NO time for the running of girls, next up in trade school or working again No Time for running girls.  Out on my own first Really full time HD Mechanic Job, worked 3 1/2 days first of week or end of week, swapped monthly 11 1/2 hour days, again little time for girl chasing but then had some time every other month with seven days off, met a gal was a move in within a few weeks and were together just at six months.  Moved back to MO, into Night or rolling shift schedules, extra jobs or work and women a third or fourth consideration.  Dated a few from work, did the bar scene, not much worked until met wife.  Met at BBQ party, blind date that was not aware of by friends.  Struck it off first day moved in together after a few weeks, engaged by a month together, married at end of a year.  Been together 36, married 35 this summer.  Four Residences, three full homes, two farms, misc. yelling matches and educations on confusing subjects that set those off.

Never "Tried" to be intimidating, just a Large person and capable of Large things.

DaveKamp wrote: Hee hee... enjoying everyone's comments here!!! I'll throw in mine, but advise against taking it for anything other than amusement: My son, at 15, had a female friend (16) over, they were watching movies in our (basement) movie theater area, and going to dinner after sundown.  Not totally private, but not immediately monitored.  It is, unfortunately, located in direct path between the basement stairway landing, and my electronics/radio shop, and I was in need of some tools and parts.  As I came down the stairs, they paused the movie, I stopped, introduced myself to his female friend, and issued only one concern...   "If my SON comes home pregant, you'll have some SERIOUS explaining to do..." (the look on their faces was PRICELESS!!!) His choices got much better over the next few... My daughter, from the first footsteps, has been rambunctious...  loud, energetic, run-full-speed-tackle-hug me when I arrived home every night.  She's an excellent archer, and at just-shy of 6ft, a monster goalkeeper in demand by local and state leagues.  She can be quite mean at times, and she'll hold back no verbiage when she's got a point to make.  Cleaning chickens suits her just fine... When she was little, I told her that she could 'start dating two years after she's married', and she's not afraid to let everyone know my rule. I feel SORRY for the boys that try to court her...  so when I meet them, I just say "Hello, son, welcome.  I'll pray for you."  Really.... she's fearless... she's gonna hurt some poor boy... put 'em in the hospital...  just being herself... Most fathers would lie awake at night, fearing for their daughters' safety... I worry about the boys she'd date.  I suppose what I SHOULD do is warn them: Son, I'm a father of a fine girl... I'm strong, I'm dangerous.... but that doesn't matter- don't screw up, because by the time I get to you, there will be nothing left of you for me to see...  she WILL tear you apart... Now that's funny! 'If my son comes home pregnant.......'  I have a grand daughter that I think is going to be similar to your daughter. Judging by both families' genetics, I doubt she will ever come any ways near 6', but she is mean as a rattlesnake and not afraid of anything! green eyed redhead, we call her big red. The scary part is she can be real sweet, just don't cross her! she is 10 now....

Edited by LouSWPA - 18 Feb 2021 at 8:35pm

They're still pretty little Ted. 9 and 7. Just had their first school dance. Evie (9) ACTS like she doesn't pay the boys any attention. Cora (7) plays them like a starving catfish. She had 3 or 4 wanting to take her to the dance. She didn't go with any of them but I think she danced with all of them. Just thought it would be a fun topic

Edited by thendrix - 19 Feb 2021 at 6:08pm

Love the stories. Dave’s reminds me of my first date after I got my drivers license. Dad handed me the keys to his truck and said “If you drink and drive, don’t park, accidents cause people.” I’ll never forget that.

I asked a girl out when I was in highschool.
I went to the door and met her mom and dad. They gave me all the rules and said they expected me to follow them. I gave my word that I would.
I then popped the question to her dad. I asked if the short bed bump side 4x4 Ford in the driveway was his. He said yes.
We then went out to look at the ole Ford. We really hit it off and the daughter wasn’t happy.
He and I remained friends.
The girl and I did not pan out.

thendrix wrote: Well, here we are 2 1/2 years later and Evie has a little t*rd that she calls a boyfriend. It's a middle school thing and that's the only place they see each other but I still don't like it. I've revamped my first meeting plan though. I just happened to talk to an older gentleman one day and this came up. He said when his daughter went on a first date, he was cordial to the fellow and then, as they were leaving, he handed his daughter a quarter and said "if you need me you call and no matter where I'll be there". Can't use a quarter anymore but I believe I'll check it she has her phone then follow this pattern.

Walker wrote: Tell him your daughters entire family has always been born hermaphroditic.

She'd kill me. I guess I should've waited about teaching her to shoot

Tyler, agree they are a treasure, but your “fun” is just beginning!

What worried me the most about my wife's dad, wasn't what he said, bit what he didnt say. He didn't say much at all. And that worked better than about any attempted scares I had over the years, and I had an ex's crazy mother call the cops on me. Turns out like mother like daughter hence EX lol.

Having a daughter that is almost 14 and I haven't had this issue but once....